Love Life; Control or being controlled!! Pt.1

Today, 4th February. a speaker from Penang(I think so coz somehow he mentioned) came to our school to give us a speech. The speech title is 'Relationship & Sex'. I think most of the students thought that will be a sexual education speech, but it's all about life! And Loving yourself and others!!! It's also about how you should be thankful to what you already had and look at those who do not have what you had!! Our speaker, he called himself Uncle Jeff, is a good one. He is a Christian and I am affirmative about that. Before he starts his speech, he showed us a video. It's a video about three girls who are so unlucky and have cancer. They passed away last year, that's 2009 and they had not graduate from secondary school yet. It's quite touching as I watch it... The video is located here if you want to watch.

Besides, he too taught girls how to protect themselves from being "eaten" and how normal it is for boys' desire to "eat" people. nah just skip that part coz it's too normal to be talked about. It is so true that the society nowadays are full of dangers, you can end up being a victim just before you know it!! Especially girls need protection and that's why there are laws to protect girls marh~ Teenagers nowadays can be very naive and believe everything they see on the net. There are many cases in our country like sex before marriage and running away from home with their so called lovers who doesn't even know what love is!! Love is not a game that you can undo everything by just pressing restart after you lost, love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It bonds two or more individuals together and connects them with trust and it can't be measured. For those who thinks it is just a game should just grow up more and learn more.

Back to the topic. Uncle Jeff talked about taking care of the hygiene of out own sex organs. Males should wash their penis often and not to masturbate just as you wish to conserve and preserve the engine from getting old.. lol.. and girls should take good care of their own body during puberty and so on. Before he ended his speech, he gave us his website, I will link it here. Take a look if you are free, it will really help a lot because I too read it.

At night, that's at 8pm, he had another speech at our school lecture hall. Although the attendance of that speech is not as good as I thought, but the speech is still awesome. He talked about how internet can be addictive to teenagers and how it is treated in other countries like China and Hong Kong. They use electric current and electrify your brain by connecting a wire to your head. Those teenagers who went through this treatment said it is so unbearable that you can feel the pain, for 40 minutes, and you can even shout or do anything. Some said the pain is so well..can't be described that you have to go through it to know it yourself.

Internet addiction is not a new case in our country. Some teenagers spent almost 24 hours in front of their computer to play games. Most of the games are so violent that they affect the thinking of those teenagers who played the game. There were also some cases that some teenagers are so addicted to internet that they tend to lose their mind when their parents cancel off the net. Some banged their head to the wall while some took a cleaver and almost chopped someone after getting addicted to the net.

The net can be a useful tool for everyone, but it can also make people suffer if the person using it is not wise enough to control it and not being controlled by it. It is so scary that I am writing this post and saw the time is 2344 and I have to go to school tomorrow morning. I shall continue this topic tomorrow if I am free.